My sister, Selveda, her jappenesse fried, Kiyomi, and I went to hiking last month in Santa Barbara. We were talking about family and siblings. Kiyomi and we introduce our siblings in thier absence. When we were walking down to back Santa Barbara, Kiyomi asked "which your siblings do you more admire?" to my sister. At that moment, I immediately thought that my sister will say my brother, Abdullah, who is a doctor. Then my sister and I agreed that our all siblings will choose this brother. I think having good sense of humor, sensitive feeling and being open mind makes him more admirer person among not only my siblings but but also all people who I know for me.
Sense of humor is one of the significant talent for people. This is a gift which is given by God as nature for us. My brother has a good sense of humor. I remember when we talk a serious topic, he can us laugh with a word. Every body can think that word and say in the same time but the way he say is pretty different. Sometimes his laughing make me laugh.
Before I wrote my journal, I read a few journals. I noticed that all of them choose the person who influence them from their own family. Feeling is important for us because it affects people's behaviour. Then our behaviours influence other people's feeling. If we get along with someone along time , we are affected from them. If their attitude affect us we would admire them. So my brother has a good sensitive feeling to his family and friends. I obsevred that he try to dont get hurt people. Maybe it is part of his job, he always ready to help people who need aid.
Before I decided to do something, I would inform to my family. Most of them suggest their decision on what they expect from my life except my brother, Abdullah. First he listens my reason, and then he shares his idea with me whether he join me or not. Because of that I always inform to him first. By the way, I cant get along with person who has prejudgement. I havent seen him judge me before listen my reasons. The way he act to my movements affect me on my feeling.
All in all, his behaviour and life style influence me most among the other. I am happy that i have this kind of brother.Having a lot of siblings increases possibility for a person who influence you in your own family..
1 comment:
He seems like a great brother, and a great one to write about as well.
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