Journal #6 MARRIGE and AGE

I always think my mom when this topic discussed. Because my mom get married too early in her 15, I am so concern about it. In my culture, all last generation, my mom and dad generation, married so early. They were telling me in my village people have to marry before age of twenty. If people dont marry before this age, it means they can not marry or nobody wants to marry to them. because of this and some other particular reason my had to marry to early. In my opinion fifteen years old a girl is still child. My mom has spent most of her times in her family first two years of marriage.. I have two sister they are their thirteen but they are still single.. By the time culture has changed. By the way, we can infer that culture can change. Culture is not static is dynamic.. In additon, my father alot of time insist me to get married. If I listened to him, I would have many kids now.:) By the way, I wanna have bunch of kids :):)

why people get marriage their late age. According to research, mostly people get married after their thirty. Because social and economical problems dont let people get marry early age.. As you know I am still not married but I am confused which age is the right age for married. Islam religion advice to muslim get marry early age. The reason getting marry early age is that everybody have a partner and this protect community from some criminal. It is genetic male and female need eachother for reaction. When this not happened via marriage, it possible some criminal happens. On the other hand, Getting marry early is hard to succed with it. If we look around us, no body can get marry in their early age. In my opinion, marriage age for men should be between 25-30, for women should be 22-28. why I choose this I age. I chose those age because the meaning of marriage to me sharing life with a partner for rest of life not for having sex. It is normal have kids in a marriage. So we marry to late we can not communicate with our children as well we marry early.